Day 6 – Genesis 21-23; Mark 6

When Abraham was 100 years old Isaac was born to him and Sarah. That sentence shows us the amazing power of God to keep His promises. God had told Abraham he would become the father of many nations, and Isaac was the “down payment” on that promise. After all, before one can have descendants as numerous as the sands of the seashore, one must have one descendant. God always keeps His promises. We are beneficiaries of one of God’s promises to Abraham. God told Abraham all the nations of the earth would be blessed through Him. Through Jesus that promise is being fulfilled across the planet. God told Abraham the promise of land for his people wouldn’t be fulfilled for 400 years, long after Abraham would see the fulfillment. Yet, Abraham believed God and experienced many blessings from Him throughout his life.

In Genesis 22, we read of God’s “test” for Abraham. Imagine waiting all your adult life, waiting until you were 100 years old, before having your first-born child. Then, after the joy of having a son, and watching him grow, God tells you to take that only son, whom you love a great deal, and offer him as a sacrifice to God. Unimaginable, right? Actually, quite imaginable to any of us who have read the Bible in even a cursory way, because the account of Abraham’s willingness to offer Isaac as a sacrifice to God is one of the most familiar stories in Genesis. We know God spared Isaac at the last minute, telling Abraham to put down the knife. But Abraham’s obedience to God went to the extreme of being willing to offer Isaac as a sacrifice to Him.

Living in the 21st century, as we do, we find it hard to imagine “our” God, carrying out such a test in anyone’s life. “Our” God is loving and kind. He doesn’t hurt anyone, or want us to hurt anyone. Our God is loving and kind. He is also holy and majestic. He alone is God, and He deserves our absolute allegiance. Jesus’ fame and miraculous ministry demonstrated God’s power in ways the people of Israel must have nearly forgotten. Yet, when Jesus went home to Nazareth, the people didn’t acknowledge His authority and power. As a result Jesus wasn’t able to do many miracles there. “All” He could do was lay His hands on a few sick people and heal them.  (I’ve always thought laying my hands on a few sick people and healing them would be a fantastic day!) Jesus was amazed at the people’s unbelief. What a sad reason for Jesus’ amazement. I often wonder whether Jesus is amazed at our unbelief, and at how often we mold God into our image of what we think He ought to be like, rather than loving and serving Him for who He is.

God is not nice. He isn’t sweet. God does call us to radical obedience, and He has given us the same Spirit that was in Abraham. He has also given us salvation through the blood shed by Jesus on the cross.  We must read every passage in the Bible, and must live out our lives remembering that God has never been formed in our image. His constant goal is to shape us into His! For Abraham the greatest test was to give up His beloved son, Isaac. He passed the test with flying colors. Whatever tests God sends our way today, may we call on the power of the Holy Spirit that we, too, may pass!

Day 5 – Genesis 17-20; Mark 5

While the “action” in Genesis 17-20 is compelling, let’s focus on our reading from Mark 5 today.  I have always loved Mark 5, because it contains three amazing examples of Jesus’ love and power. First, Jesus encountered Legion, a man possessed by “many” demons. We’re told the man had suffered much, and lived among the tombs, because no one could bind him. Imagine the torment, not only did Legion suffer internally from the demon possession, he also suffered externally, because no one could be near him. In the midst of that pain and isolation, Jesus came and provided wholeness. Legion was so filled with gratitude that he asked Jesus to let him accompany Jesus and the disciples, but He told Legion (who probably needed a new name!) to go home and tell everyone what God had done for him. Imagine the amazement of Legion’s family and friends when they saw him sane, dressed, and proclaiming the good news of Jesus!

As Jesus continued on, Jairus, a synagogue leader, came and begged Jesus to heal his daughter who was dying. That a synagogue leader, a leader among the Jews, would come to Jesus and ask for a healing miracle shows his desperation. The Jewish leaders had already turned against Jesus, but Jairus would have done anything to save his daughter.

Jesus agreed to go with Jairus, but as they walked along, a huge crowd gathered, and pushed against Jesus on all sides. In the hustle and bustle of the moment, a woman who had a terrible bleeding disorder saw her opportunity to receive healing. According to Moses’ Law, she was “unclean” and wasn’t permitted to be near people.  She certainly wasn’t permitted to touch them. Yet, in her desperation she conceived a plan: if she could just touch Jesus’ robe, she knew His power would heal her. The plan was sound. She was right. She touched Jesus’ garment, and immediately she was healed. One thing she hadn’t considered, was Jesus would feel the healing power go out of Him. He asked, “Who touched me?”

You have to love the disciples. They looked around, saw hundreds of people pressing in on Jesus from all sides and asked, “Really? Look, Master, with this crowd how would we ever be able to tell?” The woman realized she was revealed. Her plan had worked, but now she would suffer the humiliation of being called out by Jesus for breaking Moses’ Law. Precisely the opposite happened. Jesus not only didn’t reprimand her, He called her “daughter.” This is the only place in the four gospels where Jesus called anyone daughter. Then Jesus affirmed her faith, telling her it was her faith that had made her well.

By this time, some folks arrived from Jairus’ house and told him they didn’t need to bother the Teacher further, because the little girl had died. Jesus looked at Jairus and said, “Don’t be afraid. Just have faith.” Wow! having daughters of my own, I can’t imagine how hard it must have been for Jairus in that moment. Whatever the distance to his house from where they were, it must have seemed like forever before they arrived. As they entered the house, family and friends were weeping and wailing as we would expect in such a tragic moment. But Jesus told them the girl wasn’t dead. She was just sleeping. They laughed at Jesus, but He went to the girl, took her hand and told her to get up. She did!

Each of the three accounts isn’t only an account of an exorcism or a healing, but a demonstration of God’s awesome power in Jesus. In each case, the person healed had been separated from loved ones in extreme ways, and Jesus restored each one to life, health, wholeness and community. I’m grateful Mark included these accounts for us, because they show us nothing is too hard for God, and that Jesus cared not only about the physical well-being, or even only about the spiritual well-being of those He healed, but even for their social well-being–their ability to live in and be part of their families and communities.

As we go about the day, let’s remember the same power that came from Jesus is part of our lives as His followers. We have the same Holy Spirit in us who lived in Jesus. Let’s be ready for the opportunities God sends our ways as we go about the day, just as Jesus was ready for Legion, the woman, and Jairus’ daughter.

Day 4 – Genesis 14-16; Mark 4

One of the most important truths we learn from Abram is when God makes a promise don’t take matters into your own hands. God promised Abram He would give him a son, but Abram and Sarai decided God was taking too long, so they took matters in their own hands. Sarai gave Abram her maidservant, Hagar, so Abram “they” would be able to have a son. In truth, Hagar’s son would be Abram’s son, but that son would not be the child God promised him. We will see as we read in the days ahead that Hagar’s son, Ishmael, became a challenge and a problem, for Abram and Sarai. That could have been avoided had they only waited for God’s timing instead of insisting on moving in their own.

How many times have you been impatient with God’s timing in your life? I know it’s been far too often for me. I have never had such a specific promise from God as Abram and Sarai, but I remember when Nancy and I were praying for God to give us a child, a period that lasted for nearly a decade, so many times I thought God had forgotten us. In much smaller matters, I push my will thinking it is God who is challenging me to step forward in faith. The question becomes, “How do we know when God is speaking to us, and when it’s our own desire?” Henry Blackaby offers a great response to that question in his book Experiencing God. Blackaby tells us God speaks to us in four primary ways: 1) through His written word–the Bible; 2) through prayer; 3) through circumstances; and 4) through other believers.

Let’s look a little closer at each way.  When we read the Bible we find principles and promises that speak clearly to us. I’m not talking about a “name it and claim it” theology, where we find and verse that says what we want to hear or have and claim it as a promise from God. Rather, I mean when Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:33 if we seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, God will add everything we need to our lives, that as we put God first, He will see our daily needs are provided.

God speaks to us through prayer in many ways. In my experience, God has spoken audibly to me only a couple of times, but He often speaks in my Spirit when I pray. The temptation is always to speak to myself and call it God, but my discernment process involves being certain the “answer” I receive is consistent with God’s revealed will in the Bible. After all, God will never tell us something that isn’t consistent with what He has already said in His word.

God speaks through our circumstances. For example, I have often prayed God would use our home effectively for His purposes. Since Abby and Emmy moved out of the house several years ago, we have had a big house all to ourselves. We have hosted a couple of short-term house guests over the years, but last August when Pastor Joe Tung from Canada e-mailed me and told me their church had three teenaged girls who needed a home, I immediately sensed this was God answering my prayer. Of course, with such a major decision, Nancy and I needed to discern together that God was, indeed, calling us to become parents again.  The opportunity to serve Him through parenting Teresa, Yukina, and Yumiko has been His voice speaking clearly through circumstances.

Finally, God sometimes speaks through other believers. When I was seventeen, and had accepted an appointment to West Point, I had one last opportunity to preach in my home church in Gipsy, PA. After the service, a  close family friend, Shyrl Spicher looked me in the eyes and said, “I think you have missed your calling.” She didn’t know, that I knew God was calling me to be a pastor, but I was doing everything I could to avoid that call in my life. Her words echoed in my mind and heart for years. I knew God was speaking through her, and ultimately, I responded to that call.

In each of our lives, we can do our will or God’s will. God’s will is always better for us! I pray we will take the time to listen for and to God’s voice in whatever manner He speaks to us today.

Day 3 – Genesis (10) 11-13; Mark 3

Genesis 11 offers us an intriguing look at human nature after God spared it from total destruction. With new opportunities to turn to God and serve Him, instead we decided to “make a name for ourselves.” The amazing thing is God acknowledged our capacity was unlimited. He said whatever we set our minds to do, we would accomplish–and that was without the power of the Holy Spirit. In God’s mercy, He confused the languages of the people, which caused them to abandon the building project and scatter over the earth.  How ironic, God’s original intention was for us to be fruitful and multiply and rule over the whole earth with Him. That would have included covering the earth, but the difference would have been our travels would have fulfilled God’s purpose. Now, humanity scattered and divided, becoming distinct peoples who would ultimately war and strive against God and one another rather than working in unity.

Thankfully, that was not the end of the story. As we see in Genesis 12-13, God called Abram, and started establishing the fulfillment of His plan for humanity through him. Notice Abram was far from perfect. He told Sarai to lie about their relationship as husband and wife, when they went to Egypt to protect himself from harm, and at the potential cost of having her become someone else’s wife. God didn’t call Abram, because Abram was perfect. That’s good news for us: God calls us despite our sin and shortcomings, not because of how good we are! He starts with where we are and through the blood of Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit, transform us from he inside out.

As we go about the day, remember God’s purpose is to draw us together, not scatter us, and to redeem us from the sins and shortcomings of our lives, to be His sons and daughters. No wonder Jeremiah would one day proclaim God has plans for our good and to provide us a future and a hope! We see that future and hope embodied in the life of Jesus. In our reading from Mark 3, Jesus healed the sick and cast out demons to demonstrate the power of God’s future for us. Notice, though, the religious leaders and even Jesus’ own family members didn’t see what He was doing as from God. God’s ways are often misunderstood by those who haven’t yet experienced His saving touch. Take that to heart the next time you offer someone the truth and love of Jesus and they reject it, make fun of it, or ignore it.

Day 2 – Genesis (5) 6-9; Mark 2

As we open our Bibles today, Genesis 5 is the first chapter before us. The chapter is a genealogy of people from Adam through Noah’s sons, Shem, Ham and Japheth. To me, it is not exciting reading. To you, it may well be. Genealogies have never been overly exciting to me. To others they offer a door of understanding. When I come to them in the Bible, I typically skim through to see whether there are details about a particular person or family line that offers insight. Other than that I move quickly through the lists of names in search of the next section of narrative.

That next section in Genesis starts in chapter six and continues through Genesis nine, with us being told humanity had degenerated in not too many generations from fallen to reprobate. what an incredibly rapid descent. God “repented” (in the old King James Version) of having made humanity. While God knew where humanity would go once sin entered the world, He created us anyway. Why? We can’t answer that question with absolute certainty, but it seems God’s love for us, and God’s desire for our love for Him to be genuine and without coercion, had to allow for our rejection of God. That rejection has been absolute in so many cases, and without skipping over the amazing account of that rejection leading to God’s destruction of all but eight human beings, let’s turn to our own rejection of Him.

You and I are descendants of Adam. If we could reconstruct the genealogy of our family trees all the way back to Adam we would find them connecting somewhere with the list in Genesis 5. We inherit Adam’s sin nature at birth. As the old saying goes, “We aren’t sinners, because we sin.  We sin because we’re sinners.” It’s our nature. Thank God we were born on this side of the flood! God has continuously reached out to humanity. He did it through Noah, through Abraham, through Moses, through the judges and kings of Israel, and ultimately through Jesus. While that’s getting way ahead of the story, the Bible’s connective thread is God’s ongoing effort to intercede in our behalf to overcome the sin we brought into the world. Preserving Noah and his family was a vital moment in that effort.

As we read through the Bible, we see God is always plotting to do us good. As  our reading from Mark 2 reminds us, Jesus’ ministry brought healing to the sick, welcome to the outcast, and victory over the rigid ways of legalism. Such amazing good would ultimately be rewarded with crucifixion, which shows us the depth of human sin and Satan’s desire to defeat God’s goodness. That crucifixion resulted in Jesus’ ultimate defeat of sin, death and Satan, which is one more example of how God is, indeed, always plotting to do us good!

Day 1 – Genesis 1-4; Mark 1

In the beginning God… so begins the book of Genesis. Before the beginning was also God.  The age-old question of “Who created God?” goes unanswered in the Bible, because God is the uncaused caused. He always existed. How? We cannot say or know.  Why? We cannot say or know. Part of the nature of God is being unknowable and beyond the capacity of the creatures He has created. Yet, God has made Himself known to us. He has revealed Himself to us in creation. (A creation requires a Creator, right?) He has revealed Himself to us in the history of the people of Israel. He has revealed Himself to us most clearly through His Son, Jesus Christ. Why? That we know. He tells us in the Bible.  From cover to cover we read of God’s love for us, of God’s desire to be in relationship with us.  That’s why reading and living God’s word in the Bible is vital to a growing relationship with God.

On this Easter day 2018, the greatest evidence and revelation of God’s love is the remembrance of Jesus walking out of the tomb, thus announcing sin and death had been defeated! You might never have experienced that love, or you might live in it daily. Either way, my prayer for you is you will experience God’s great love in Jesus Christ right now.  Know God created the universe for His glory and so you and I might rule over it with Him. Know that when we rejected God (which we read about in Genesis 3) God continued to care for us. Know Jesus is the ultimate evidence of God’s goodness and love.

We will always have many questions about God we cannot answer in this life. That is to be expected of a being whose thoughts and ways are as high above ours as the heavens are above the earth, according to prophet Isaiah. The good news, the amazing news is God loves us so much He has revealed everything of Himself we need to know to experience abundant life and salvation through His Son, Jesus Christ! To God be all the glory, honor and praise!

See You In September!

Those of you who read my blog may be wondering whether the big 6-0 did me in, because my last post was on my 60th birthday, which was nearly a month ago. The reality is life has been piling on over the month of June, and I’m acknowledging now, what has already been true: I’m taking a break until September. Given a brief vacation upcoming in July and then a twelve day missions trip to Cambodia to follow, the remainder of the summer will be full.

In the meantime, I’m going to make a diligent effort to upgrade both the content and the distribution of Helping Leaders Lead Better, so it will be worth your while to join me on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays starting Wednesday, September 6, 2017. The focus will still be on church leaders, but as always best practices in leadership are transferable to all leaders. I am simply being practical in resourcing the group of leaders with whom I have the greatest affinity and the most in common.

God’s blessings on your July and August! See you in September…

The Big 6-0!

Happy Birthday to me! I’ve reached the big 6-0. It’s hard for me to believe I’m sixty years old. As so many people say, “I don’t feel that old.” I really don’t, most of the time, anyway. Over the past week I’ve been reflecting on my fifties, and significant truths I’ve learned and applied in my life, so today, I look forward to this golden decade of life. I read a quote from Bob Biehl recently that said the sixties ought to be one’s most productive decade of life. I’m certainly seeing it that way. While I don’t have the physical capacity to work as I once did, the knowledge and wisdom I’ve accumulated along the way along with the presence and power of the Holy Spirit more than make up for the physical deficits.

More than anything I’m grateful to have the opportunity to live and move and have my being in Jesus Christ, and to be serving Him effectively as I launch into my sixties.  Life is a gift and when I was young I often took it for granted. Now, I wake up everyday and thank God for the gift of another day of life. I’m grateful for the Holy Spirit’s constant presence, guidance and direction in my life. I’m grateful for Nancy and enjoy living life together with her more with each passing season of our lives. She and I have always been so opposite in our personalities, but we’ve been hitting our stride in making those differences work together to create a better and better marriage as the days, weeks, months and years pass. I feel sorry for those who gave up on their marriages in the early years or even decades, and never got to enjoy the growing unity that decades together create when God is leading.

I’m grateful for the opportunity to do meaningful work to advance God’s Kingdom, and to do it with a staff of fantastic people who love Jesus and their particular ministries. As we work together the results are so encouraging. Once again, the application of perseverance over time, and following God’s leading is producing a church I’m so glad to be here to experience and help lead.

As we reach various milestones in our lives, they provide us the opportunity and to remember once again that the unexamined life isn’t worth living, regardless of our age. As I reflect on the first sixty years and look forward to the days, months and years ahead, if the Lord wills, I am filled with gratitude for the past and hope for the future. I’m looking forward to waking up to a great many more days of serving Jesus in, through and beyond New Life.

I hope wherever you are on the timeline of your life that you are grateful for God’s work and hopeful for His future in your life. Why not take a moment right now to reflect on where you’ve been and where you’re going? Thank God for all He’s done, and call on Him to fill you anew with the Holy Spirit that you may continue to serve Him well.

Here’s to leading better, by pausing to reflect on where you’ve been and where you’re going–today!

The Last Week of My 50’s

As I reflect on the last week of my 50’s–and I’m now down to the last two days of my 50’s–the most significant development of this decade for me has been what happened during my spring retreat this year in early May. I’ve already recounted some of the impact from the retreat, but the most significant lasting aspect of that time, and one that is going to last into my 60’s in a powerful way, provided God gives me time in my 60’s is the reality that when Jesus told us we must “lost our souls, in order to find them,” and the necessity of “taking up our cross daily” He was talking about the daily necessity of “crucifying” our souls-our minds, emotions and wills–and letting the Holy Spirit “resurrect” them. I got this truth from Watchman Nee’s book The Normal Christian Life.

It has made such an impact in a short time. Over the past month, during my daily prayer time I have told God, “I lay my soul before you–mind, emotions and will. Crucify them so I will live in the power of Your Holy Spirit and not in my own, selfish will, feelings or intellect.” I don’t say it in exactly those words each day, but the point is I want God to be in charge of my mind, emotions and will, and not me. As I read and reflected on Nee’s point in The Normal Christian Life that each of the gospel writers records a different moment and context when Jesus told us we must lose our souls in order to find or save them, I realized He had understood a powerful, biblical concept I had somehow skipped over all these years. The reality in my life has been an understanding that the world (or I) have no need of my best, whether it be the best of my brain power, or the most passionate of my emotions or the most determined set of my will. What I need and what the world needs from me is to submit my brain power, my passion and my determined will to the presence and power of the Holy Spirit. Only then, does God’s will and purpose get done in and through me.

If we are going to be the best leaders we can at home, in the church, out in the world, wherever we’re leading, we must offer the folks we lead God’s best in us.  God doesn’t want to wipe out our personalities, or our intellect, our emotions or our wills. God wasn’t to empower them in ways we will never accomplish apart from Him. Dr. Dick Eastman mentioned that a Korean pastor who toured the United States some years ago, visiting many of the larger churches was asked at the conclusion of his tour, “What did you think?” The pastor replied, “It is amazing what the American Church has been able to do…without God.”

Whoa. When I heard that I thought, “How often do I do something ‘without God,’ that is without submitting my soul to Him?” I am quite careful to pray before I preach, while I prepare messages and studies, and yet many times I was asking God to “baptize” my efforts, my study. The goal is not to empty our minds and not to study, not to work, but the difference I’m talking about is confessing to God that nothing good starts in or with me. My mind is always going to be tainted with sin, with selfishness, with a motivation to put me in a good light. Only when I offer my mind up to God, when I “crucify” it can He “resurrect” it through the Holy Spirit’s power and use it to His glory.

This change of emphasis has brought about such significant changes in just a month, that I list it as the most important development of my fifties. On a daily basis, I have been learning what it means to live with the Holy Spirit not just present but in charge of my soul. Do I fail at keeping Him in charge? Definitely! I am at the “conscious learned” stage in the process of learning to live with the Holy Spirit resurrecting my soul. (If you’re not familiar with the four stages of learning they are: 1) Unconscious unlearned (you don’t know you don’t know something.); 2) conscious unlearned (you know you don’t know something.); 3) conscious learned (you now know the information, or the process, but you have to think to implement it.) and; 4) unconscious learned (you can access the information or implement the process without thinking about it.) That means I need to think often about whether the Holy Spirit is in charge of a mental process I’m using to prepare a lesson, or a blog post, for example. One day, I’ll move on to the place where the Holy Spirit is guiding my soul without much conscious effort.

As you go about your day today, stop to consider whether you have given the Holy Spirit permission to guide your mind, emotions and will. Have you “crucified” them, lost your soul to use Jesus’ term, so that you can find them in Him? This is a crucial question, and makes incredible difference in how we approach nearly everything we do. That’s why I list it as the most important learning of my 50’s. I hope you learn or have learned it much sooner in your life.

Here’s to leading better, by taking the time to give the Holy Spirit control of your soul–today! (and everyday!)

The Last Week of My 50’s

As I live the last week of my 50’s and consider some of the most significant growth that took place during them, something that happened at the beginning of my 50’s has had powerful effect throughout them: God showed me how to overcome a life-long battle with anger. I grew up in an angry household, my dad was an angry man. His father before him had been an angry man, as had his father. We had a generational curse of anger going in our family. I inherited the anger, too. By the time I was five, I had already learned that when things didn’t go my way the natural response was anger.

While I surrendered my life to Jesus at the age of twelve, my anger problem didn’t go away. Even when I went to seminary and became a pastor, the anger problem persisted. I prayed for God to remove it. I asked God forgiveness over and over again after an outburst of unrighteous anger, and promised not to do it again. Then something big or usually small would happen and I would explode again. While I managed the anger for the most part, it surfaced regularly, and while I never became violent, or hurt anyone, it was a poor testimony and it ate away at me.

In my early 50’s I read a book by Gary Smalley titled Change Your Heart, Change Your Life. The book contained a simple truth: whatever the sin you struggle with in your life has been “written” on your heart. In order to overcome it, you must “overwrite” the sin, with a truth from God that “erases” it. It sounds simple, and easy, and it was. While I could have chosen many verses dealing with anger to overwrite the life-long incidents of anger that were in my heart, I chose the Golden Rule, Luke 7:12: In all things do to others what you would have them do to you. This sums up the Law and the Prophets. I prayed the verse over and over. I asked God to use it to change my heart. When everyday situations came up that moved my heart to its typical anger, I would pray, “God let me do to that person/driver/cashier what I would want to have done to me.” In a matter of days, I noticed a difference. I was in the conscious learned stage, but I was catching the anger sooner, and overwriting it with a call for God to give me the power of His Spirit to do what I would want to have done in the situation.

As the months passed the incidents of anger reduced dramatically. Now, as I near the end of my 60’s, I find most of the time I’m living at the unconscious learned level when it comes to anger. In other words, I don’t have to think about not “blowing up” any more. Yes, occasions still occur when it flares up. In those moments, I go back to the conscious mode of asking God to fill me with the Holy Spirit and to do what I would want to have done to me. But more and more, I have hours of victory and sometimes whole days.  That never happened in my teens, twenties, thirties or forties.

What about you? Do you have a signature sin that’s written on or in your heart? Do you confess it, repent of it and promise God you won’t do it again, only to have it show up again in minutes, hours or days? If you do, I recommend the process I mentioned. God’s word is true and His Holy Spirit is powerful. We know that, but sometimes we need to be reminded. I also recommend the Smalley’s book as an excellent resource for helping you overcome whatever it is that is holding you back from living victoriously as a person and leader in Jesus’ name.

Here’s to leading better by addressing any sin that has overwritten your heart–today!